The occasional, often ill-considered thoughts of a Roman Catholic permanent deacon who is ever grateful to God for his existence. Despite the strangeness we encounter in this life, all the suffering we witness and endure, being is good, so good I am sometimes unable to contain my joy. Deo gratias!


Although I am an ordained deacon of the Catholic Church, the opinions expressed in this blog are my personal opinions. In offering these personal opinions I am not acting as a representative of the Church or any Church organization.

Saturday, September 12, 2020

COVID-19 Bible Study Reflection #16: Blessings and Happiness

The following is the 16th of the COVID-19 reflections written primarily for those parishioners who would normally take part in our weekly Bible Study. Sadly, those meetings have been suspended, at least for a while. I hope you find these reflections of some value, and, during these difficult times, I encourage you all to find creative ways to fulfill God's command to love Him and your neighbor. God's peace...

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Aristotle once described happiness as "that which all men seek." He also observed that what we do, day in and day out, is what we believe will bring us happiness in one form or another. Of course, the obvious problem is we are so often wrong. What we hope will bring happiness usually doesn't. For example, many seek happiness in alcohol or drugs or gambling or sexual gratification and instead find only addiction, pain, damaged relationships, and lives spiraling out of control. The result? Lost jobs, destroyed families, and shattered lives. 

Yes, everyone seeks happiness, but so often we look for it in all the wrong places. Good old Aristotle recognized this. He described the ethical person as one who knows and does that which leads to true and lasting happiness. Others seek happiness by striving to attain wealth or power. This, too, always fails. Ultimately, the promised happiness is at best short-lived.

Now, another word for true and lasting happiness is “blessedness” or “beatitude,” something about which Jesus often spoke. And when He spoke, He turned the world of His listeners upside-down. Can you imagine what the people of Galilee thought as they sat on that mountainside and listened to the opening words of the Sermon on the Mount? Heck, just imagine what the people of today would think.

Jesus began with the Beatitudes [Mt 5:3-12], eight declarations of true happiness, of what it means to be blessed. And that’s what they were: declarations. They weren’t commands. Jesus was just offering the Galileans and us the basics of true happiness. Later on, in that same sermon, He’s more specific about how we must live if we are to be His disciples. But right now, He just lays the groundwork, but that’s enough to upset the Galileans’ world (and ours). 

It doesn’t take much time or brainpower to figure out that Jesus’ message is the exact opposite of the world’s message, and the world’s message hasn’t really changed in 2,000 years. The contrast is so very evident.

·         Blessed are the poor in spirit -- Happy are the rich and prosperous, those who believe they have no need of the Spirit.

·         Blessed are they who mourn -- Happy are they who avoid unpleasantness, who consider mourning psychologically unhealthy.

·         Blessed are the meek -- Happy are the clever and ambitious, the newsmakers, the celebrities, those who look out for number one.

·         Blessed are they who hunger and thirst for righteousness -- Happy are those whose personal ambition always outweighs justice and truth

·         Blessed are the merciful -- Happy are the powerful, those who crush their enemies, who see mercy as weakness.

·         Blessed are the pure of heart -- Happy are those who reject holiness, who use and abuse others for their personal satisfaction and pleasure.

·         Blessed are the peacemakers -- Happy are those who use aggression and violence to achieve the ends they seek. 

·         Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake -- Happy are those who never accept responsibility for their actions, who believe the persecuted have only themselves to blame.

But that’s not all. Jesus concludes the Beatitudes with one more blessing, and this one’s different because it’s personal. No longer is it “they” or “them.” No, this time Jesus speaks in the first person and He speaks directly to you and to me:

“Blessed are you when they insult you and persecute you and utter every kind of evil against you falsely because of me” [Mt 5:11].

Jesus then promises that from this blessing will come a reward, actually the bounty of all these blessings, these beatitudes. And it’s not an earthly, but a heavenly reward.

“Rejoice and be glad, for your reward will be great in heaven” [Mt 5:12].

These are not easy words to accept, for we’ve been programmed by the world to seek happiness and rewards right here on earth. Indeed, the world’s message is really quite simple: Focus only on yourself and all will go well. This is the message that bombards you and me, our children, and our grandchildren. It attacks us via a thousand different channels, all day, every day. It was really no different on that day in Galilee so long ago. It may be delivered today via a multitude of different media, but the message hasn’t changed.

Of course, it’s a lie – a clever, insidious lie because it sounds so reasonable, so believable, so true. After all, if I win $100 million playing Power Ball, how could I be anything but happy? I’ve known quite a few millionaires, and even a billionaire or two, and they’ve all suffered from various forms of unhappiness. Eventually, they come to realize that all those possessions, and everything they’ve accomplished have little true meaning, that all could, and eventually will, disappear in the single beat of a heart.

One acquaintance, who focused solely on his work and became fabulously wealthy, found himself bored, lonely, depressed, and deeply unhappy at the age of 40. His wife divorced him, he had sold his company, and for the first time in his life, he had no direction. I couldn’t help but wonder who was happier, he or a Franciscan friend of mine who has absolutely nothing…

So many, deceived by the world's empty promises, haven't yet figured it all out. They know something is terribly wrong in their lives, but they can neither define nor repair it. Fortunately, our God knows what's wrong, for He sees into each human heart. His Son provides the solution, but it's so counterintuitive, so out of this world (so heavenly?), that few are willing to accept it. The thought of abandoning everything in which we've come to believe, including ourselves, and turning in faith to the only source of true happiness...well, for so many that's just not an option, at least not yet. As one very earthly friend said to me, “Maybe on my deathbed...”

But Jesus tells us it's the only option. We’ll be happy only if we’re willing to embrace poverty and sorrow, only if we’re meek and obedient, only if our hunger and thirst for justice moves us to tend to the hungry and thirsty in our midst, only if we welcome strangers, only if we visit and care for the sick and imprisoned. We’ll be happy, He tells us, when we show mercy, when we make peace, when we suffer persecution. 

How many of us actually choose such things? How would you like to receive poverty, sorrow, and hunger as birthday gifts? But this is exactly what the Lord asks of us, exactly what we encounter in the Beatitudes. And hidden within them, underlying each of the Beatitudes, is a single virtue, one that is urged on us throughout Sacred Scripture. It’s a virtue the world silently abhors while pretending to value it: the virtue of humility.

Here, for example, are the words of Zephaniah, whose brief book of prophecy is worth the occasional reading:

“Seek the Lord, all you humble of the land, you who have observed His law; seek justice, seek humility…But I will leave as a remnant in your midst a people humble and lowly, who shall take refuge in the name of the Lord: the remnant of Israel [Zeph 2:3, 3:12].

Do you detect a foreshadowing of the Beatitudes in Zephaniah’s words? And do you see the importance God places on the virtue of humility? It is, in a very real sense, the foundational virtue which supports other virtues. Humility is a saving virtue.

St. Paul, writing to the Christians of Corinth, echoes this as he describes God’s choice of disciples:

“Consider your own calling, brothers. Not many of you were wise by human standards, not many were powerful, not many were of noble birth. Rather, God chose the foolish of the world to shame the wise, and God chose the weak of the world to shame the strong, and God chose the lowly and despised of the world, those who count for nothing, to reduce to nothing those who are something, so that no human being might boast before God. It is due to Him that you are in Jesus Christ, who became for us wisdom from God, as well as righteousness, sanctification, and redemption, so that, as it is written, ‘Whoever boasts, should boast in the Lord’” [1 Cor 1:26-31].

Yes, indeed, “as it is written…” Paul’s last line about boasting repeats and expands on the Word of the Lord preached by the prophet Jeremiah:

“Let not the wise boast of his wisdom, nor the strong boast of his strength, nor the rich man boast of his riches; but rather let those who boast, boast of this, that in their prudence they know me, know that I, the Lord, act with fidelity, justice, and integrity on earth” [Jer 9:22-23].

Jeremiah preached these words during a most difficult time for God’s People, during the reign of Jehoiakim, the second son of King Josiah. Jehoiakim was a tyrant whose incompetence probably hastened the siege and destruction of Jerusalem and the subsequent Babylonian captivity.

But as we read Jeremiah’s words, we clearly see his influence on Paul. God chooses whomever He pleases. To demonstrate His power, He chooses the “lowly and despised” rather than the wise, the strong, or the rich. And who in Jeremiah’s day could be more lowly, more despised, than the survivors being led away from their homes into captivity in pagan Babylon?

We are, then, called to humility, a virtue greatly misunderstood today. Too often humility is equated with a kind of self-deprecation in which the human person has little or no value. But this isn’t true humility. True humility is how we see ourselves in relationship to the rest of reality.

True humility looks first at the world from God’s perspective; one that accepts His creation as good. Everything, from dirt to galaxies, from rattlesnakes to human beings -- all of it is good. And humanity is the crown of that good creation.

Now, some people believe that because of original sin, because we are sinners, we can’t possibly consider ourselves good. But God never retracts His declaration of creative goodness. Indeed, scripture tells us that sin couldn’t destroy the core goodness of God’s ongoing creation:

“God…gave His only Son so that everyone who believes in Him…might have eternal life” [Jn 3:16].

God wouldn’t do that for garbage. He doesn’t consider us worthless because His own goodness is in us. Ours might be a goodness marred by sin and crippled by evil, but it’s nevertheless His goodness.

True humility, then, helps us recognize the dignity of humanity and the goodness of God’s creation. It helps us recognize our own dignity and value, as well as the equal dignity and value of others. True humility reminds us that every speck of our dignity and value comes not from ourselves but is a gift from God. Everything is a gift!

This morning I heard a reporter describe a successful businessman as a “self-made” man. But there’s really no such person. Certainly, we can achieve things, but underlying all the human effort are the gifts, the talents, and the opportunities that come only from God. True humility also leads us to accept that the unrecognized hands of others are often behind the situations that bring about the good in our lives.

To be humble, then, is to recognize who we are in relationship with God and with others. Humility leads us to thanksgiving for the value God places on us, and to the recognition that everyone has equal value, from the murderer on death row to the millionaire in Palm Beach, from the unborn baby in the womb to the homeless alcoholic begging for your spare change.

True humility leads us to realize that if God values us so highly, we too must value each other. This is where humility and the Beatitudes come together. 

Humility -- the recognition of God’s gift of goodness in each one of us – drives us to carry God’s love, to carry His peace and justice, to all those others in our lives, regardless of how the world values (or devalues) them..

Only through humility can we exchange our “me-first” attitude for a “God-first” attitude. 

Only through humility can we be obedient and meek in God’s presence, as we strive to conform ourselves to His will.

Only through humility can we join ourselves with those who mourn and share in their burden.

Only through humility can we love those who are poor because we know our possessions can never equal another’s dignity.

And only through humility can we accept that God’s mercy demands mercy from us.

Yes, brothers and sisters, the arrogant and the proud won’t bring about God’s kingdom. The humble will lead the way. These aren’t my words. They’re right out of the Sermon on the Mount. They’re God’s Word.

And so, as we struggle through this challenging time, let’s vow to make these days a time of real change; for that’s what the word, repent, means – to re-think, to change one’s mind or purpose. For most of us, the greatest change is to develop a true humility, to become like Jesus Himself, the Son of God who lowered Himself to become one of us. Let’s make Him the center of our lives.

And believe me; this will turn your world upside down and lead you to lasting happiness.


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